Distrustful people
Last week, my mom was snatched of her wallet inside a wholesale supermarket. A day’s worth of sales in our grocery was in it, including all her credit cards. I feel terrible about it. She would often ask me to accompany her, but since my academic and extra-curricular commitments often disallow me to, I am not able to. Perhaps if I was with her that day, this thing wouldn’t have happened. I feel guilty for always being busy and tired from school stuff.
Speaking of school stuff and disbelief in people, last week I went to Barangay Talon Tres in Las Piñas, with Ryan O., to conduct a data gathering survey as a requirement for Communication Research 101 class. It’s actually odd that I was sent to Las Piñas. Weeks before, we were asked to write down our addresses so that they could assign us to locations that were near our homes. For a Quezon City boy, Las Piñas isn’t actually near, is it?!
Anyway, I rushed off to Las Piñas the afternoon of Saturday (straight from Alagwa’s second shoot). We got to Talon Tres and boy, the street we got in had its fair share of unfriendly people. Hello, it’s not as if I’m collecting signatures for Sigaw ng Bayan’s fraudulent People’s Initiative! I hate Gloria Arroyo as much as all of you! There was no need to be rude in refusing to be surveyed. It didn’t help that it kept raining that afternoon.
Ryan and I weren’t able to finish our surveying before night fell on Saturday so we decided to go allt he way back the next day, this time on another neighborhood within the same baranggay which seemed and proved to be a little friendlier. The acceptance rate was still a low one-per-three households asked. We finished gathering ten respondents each a little after lunch time.

I feel guilty for always being busy and tired from school stuff.
getting home with the sun still up is also an achievement for me. school is really tiring. understatement of the year.
yesterday was my birthday, at di man lamang ako sinuklian ng konduktor…
naiinis ako sa nang snatched sa mama mo but at the same time nalulungkot din ako, kasi di ba parang ang life at this point is so hard? to survive everyday is a big challenge na para sa nakararami and thats the reason why siguro they are making those things, pero hindi naman nila inisip yung magiging epekto nun sa taong biniktima nila..hmm..hirap…how i wish it will never happen to me..di ko alam gagawin ko nun..peace!
bloghopped! very nice blog. hope i can hang-around here
sorry about what happened to your mom, hope ma-replenish kaagad what have been taken from you, God will provide.
[...] Something curious happened to bikoy.net. He faced hostility when undertaking a survey. Part of a larger trend? Are people beginning to feel used and abused by survey firms? [...]
Bikoy, don’t feel guilty. You know what, kahit kasama ka ni mama mo madudukutan pa rin siguro siya dahil ang masasamang loob walang pinipili iyan. Mommy rin ako, pag nakikita kong nag-aaral mabuti ang anak ko, masaya ako doon.
I am a comres grad and I know how it feels to do data gathering. hay… those were the days. kaya, the real lesson behind that is… the next time somebody asks you to answer a survey, or be part of an FGD or FI, pumayag ka na. what goes around, comes around.
[...] Here are some stills from Prech and Pie’s thesis short film shoot last Saturday. My entry on the film’s first day shoot is here. I wasn’t able to stay for the entire duration of this shoot since I had to accomplish my Commmunication Research 101 field survey in Las Piñas. Some of the photos weren’t taken by me. [...]
bikoy ikaw ba un ng-tag sa blog ko? un tungkol ky patricia? d2 ko nlng tinanong dahil me flag na “distrustful ppol”.. hehe..
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